How to Stop Breaking Up
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Break up is not an easy thing to go through. Even before going into relationship always gauge maturity levels – both yours and your partner’s. Emotionally matured people are more likely to have a better chance of keeping and sustaining a loving relationship (age does matter at times). Experience and maturity accepts certain realities like sharing, time, space and sometimes even money. A mature heart understands prioritizing, and sacrifice. Sad to say that more often than not younger hearts are incapable of, at most sometimes even as adults we can be pretty ignorant in our relationships. Always give yourself time to reflect on how much you want in a relationship even before you enter it, but not to the point of overly calculating.
Understanding, deeper understanding and deepest understanding are mainly the key to longevity and staying power. Both people should understand that love is not just a feeling of lust or excitement. It is also about dedication mutual respect and sincere care for one another that will provide the missing ingredients on how to stay with each other. A wise man once said “Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love become as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.” -Bruce Lee.
Love, just like the natural world, will evolve and change in time. What it evolves into will depend on how both parties take care of its evolution. If you want regular fights and hate, all you have to do is nurture it with jealousy and resentment. Paranoia and stress is sometimes part of relationship but there is nothing both can overcome given that the love is right and honest. If you want happiness, nurture it even in its early stages of trust and respect. It is what fuels the desire to stay with each other that will ultimately be every reason to stay or break up. Nurturing this love is the key. It is up to the relationship whether to fuel it with understanding and respect, or with jealousy and contempt. To keep a relationship is to start it right.
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