3 Red Flags of an Impending Breakup

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Before a breakup happens, wouldn’t it be better to be forewarned than just wait for it to happen?

You will need to avoid the dangerous collision and the damaging pain if you know how to recognize the signs and steer clear of it -

Red Flag #1: Falling out

This is one of the most common but actually the most damaging. It is in fact very minor but it is the most hurtful. When your partner distances from you and you don’t know why, you’re in for an emotional limbo.

The Cure: Break Down the Wall

A simple problem requires a simple solution. A simple look when he’s talking, a stupid joke, or a simple affectionate touch (which is done at least daily), listening to him and making him feel good about himself will do wonders. Flirt like you used to. Laugh at the dumbest jokes. You’ll both feel good and when you do, in no time you’re closer again.

Red Flag #2: Lash Fire with Fire

If you constantly throw fire, expect to be thrown fire as well. You cannot expect your partner to throw a calm wind when you rage (unless you’re very lucky). Name-calling, blaming, accusing, sarcasm, negative criticism, and physical and verbal violence (from throwing things, slamming doors, to actual physical and verbal abuse) only result in a deeper emotional wound that will be very difficult to heal later on.

The Cure: Pour Water on the Flames

Cool off your mind from anger before you say anything that you will only regret later on. If that’s totally not possible, just walk out and breathe fresh air. Use kinder words and pleas instead of piercing accusations. Instead of, “Why did you forget our date?” you could just articulate your emotions by saying, “I feel sad that you forgot our date. How can we make sure this doesn’t happen again?” If he fans the flames, do not engage in the vicious cycle. Once the other calms down, a logical mind will only say it’s but natural reciprocate.

Red Flag #3: Not acknowledging your own faults

We feel sorry for ourselves that’s why we instantly put the blame on them. We always think of ourselves as the victims and not often, the ones who provoked.

The Cure: Take Responsibility for Your Actions

Remember that you will not experience neglect, lies, betrayal, or infidelity if you never gave any reason at all for them to do it. Always think that somewhere, somehow, you gave reasons so you might as well own up the fault here.

Stop refusing to take responsibility. Instead, apologize and admit where you went wrong then just amend it next time. Simple yes, but very helpful.

These simple changes in your communication can do wonders for you. It’s only natural for a couple to argue and fight because of personality differences, but it is how you fight and argue concludes whether your love can pass this test.

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