Get Your Ex Back By Letting Him Go

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Breaking up with the guy you love more than anything in the world and that you’re sure you’re meant to be with for the rest of your life can be devastating. You probably want to cry, scream and perform the flying tackle on him as he tries to go out the door, but please don’t do any of that. No matter how much of a shock it is to you, do your absolute best to keep your cool. Too much reacting is going to reinforce his belief that leaving you and the relationship is the right thing to do. You want to change his mind.

First of all, remain calm. Try to get him to tell you why he wants to leave but don’t push the issue. If he doesn’t want to talk about it, don’t force him to because that’s only going to make him feel more smothered and restricted. When a guy is determined to leave, nothing will make him go faster than you trying to make him talk to you when he doesn’t want to. So the first thing you need to do if you really want to keep him is to let him go.

The next step is to cut off all communication for a few days. Obviously, he’ll be trying to get in touch with you to get anything of his back that he may have left. Don’t be difficult about this but don’t necessarily make arrangements around HIS schedule. You need to be too busy or something that will make it inconvenient for him to come and pick up his stuff. Instead, you be the one that sets the day and time when this happens.

Don’t talk about him to his friends or any mutual friends that you may have. Convince people that you’re doing ok, that you’re a bit sad, but still getting through it. In the meantime, start making some improvements to yourself. Get that new hairstyle you’ve wanted to try. Start working out a little to de-stress as well as tone up a bit.

Do your best not to look sad when you’re around people. The last thing you want is for word to get back to your ex that you’re moping around over him. Be seen out a lot with your friends. It also won’t hurt to go out on a date or two even if it’s just with a friend. Just make it a friend that your ex doesn’t know so that he’ll find out that you’re dating someone and moving on just fine without him.

Many times it’s the independence that you portray that will make you seem much more attractive. When your ex sees the new and improved you, he’ll see what he willingly gave up and may just want it back. This is exactly what you want to happen. Your ex will find you much more exciting when you seem that you don’t need him so much and that you can take care of yourself just fine.

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