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When he calls after a break

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One of the common questions I get is , what to do when he calls after a break. Simple answer, there is no right or wrong answer. There is no way to why he’s calling unless you do some probing, and he’s not likely to reveal the real reason without some push.

When he calls after a break

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Here are some scenarios to consider before you jump into a conclusion

  • what if his new relationship didn’t work out and he     want to fill in until he finds the ideal one. You are the best judge to find out the reality, make sure you don’t become the door mat and become his back up project or fall back plan.
  • May be there was a genuine realization on his part that you are the one and he wants to make up for the mistake. If you feel confident that this is the case he definitely needs a second chance.
  • He doesn’t have feelings for you but want some action.
  • Reality struck that grass is not greener on the other side.
  •  Some men are just utter confused, they don’t know what they want , so they just hop from one girl to another hoping to find an answer

If he does call how do you handle that call?

Make sure that you remain calm, just chill and don’t bring up your feelings, go with the flow but firm in terms of what your stand is. You don’t want your ex boyfriend to think you were sitting around doing nothing, or even worse, waiting for his phone call.

Let him do the talking. Ask the reasons for change of heart and see if tallies up. Don’t go into detail just skim the surface.

Get off the call within two or three minutes to buy time to think about his intentions, something on the lines of “hey I got to run now but call me next week”. This will get you some time to process what he told about the reason he wants to get back together.

If you are done with him, it would be better to discourage his calling and move on.

Do you have any tips on what to do when he calls after a break up? We would love to hear from you, use the comment box below.

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