The SWOT Method of Getting Her Back

So serious is your intention on getting her back that you need to devise a strategy and one that will work.  So here comes the SWOT technique.  Now I don’t mean SWAT as in the beefed up security force who all have the good looks and bodies of Hollywood stuntmen but the SWOT of any strategic planning mission.  You need to identify your Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats.

So your Vision is:  To get HER back

Your Mission is:  Identify whatever means, methods and timelines it will take to achieve your objective in as short a time as possible.

You need to create your “Strategic Plan”.  So first things first and that is to identify your strengths.  Well that is pretty easy right!  WRONG!  Remember, she left you so obviously your strengths were not as “strong” as you would have liked.  Now is the time to sit down and do some contemplative thinking.

In so far as your weaknesses go, the best part of this is that most of it is already covered in strengths above because sometimes, the absence of certain strengths is seen as weaknesses. For example, each of the following may be considered weaknesses:

• lack of apparent affection and tactility (the touch factor)
• a poor communication technique
• spending too much time in front of the Television
• spending too much time with the boys
• lack of appreciation for all that she does
• lack of cooperation and help around the home

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So use these “weaknesses” to work on improving and adding to your strengths.  I can assure you, if you think you don’t have any weaknesses, phone up some of her girlfriends and I bet they will give you at least 10 right off the bat.

In a business environment, opportunities are normally external so this is where her family and friends come in.  (Provided they agree to talk to you). If not, consider that a weakness or a threat and deal with it in that regard).  If there is some unfulfilled need of your exes, now is the time to identify it and utilize it.  Maybe she wants a puppy?  Pay a visit to the pound and get her one, that way you are maximizing the situation – supporting charity and scoring a big brownie point with her.  Whatever the case, the opportunities are there, you just need to find them.

Threats could be a slap in the face, extreme rejection, the fact she may already have moved on or that she really just does not love you any more.  So you need to identify what these threats could be and make sure that you have a plan that can eliminate all of these threats ensuring that she comes back to where she belongs, in your arms and in your bed!

Yes it might sound a little cold and analytical to compare your ‘modus operandi’ of “getting your ex back” to a strategic plan but heck, if it can save blue chip companies, why wouldn’t you use the same strategy to save the most important person in your life!

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Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of “Getting Her Back… for Good” and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.

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3 Simple Tips to Getting Back your Ex

Once you love, you’re always guaranteed to lose something in exchange of a beautiful thing that happened – before. And so now you want it back. You want your ex back, and that fairy tale love you used to have. You’re not the first person to want that. In fact, you just might be gazillionth of those desperate to have that love back. Consider these things first -

1. Real Reason for the Break Up:

Mistakes are normal but this mistake might just be very costly for you to actually break up. Find out the reason why and make sure you learn from it – to avoid it from happening again.

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2. Don’t Cling On:

Stop suffocating if you really love the person. Nobody wants a clingy partner and of course, you would also want a partner who can actually survive a day without calling you or text messaging you every single minute.

3. Jealousy Doesn’t Work:

You might as well want to ignore those idiots who keep telling you that jealousy and sleeping around, and flaunting your new boy toy is the best way to get revenge. Once you do…you will never get them back…PERIOD. If you show them that you’ve moved on, they will move on as well; and once that happens you just lost them for good.

This is not a definite list or an instant cure; merely a list of really important things to take into account when you keep on saying “I want My Ex Back”. Before you actually would want it, it’s a lot better to really think more than twice about yourself, what you really want, and how you are going to make it happen. The process of rekindling a lost flame is a lot tougher that one might actually think; but with patience and a very strong willpower you can get there and the two of you will have a far stronger relationship for it – because you’re now ready, and you already know the things you ought to know.

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