The SWOT Method of Getting Her Back

So serious is your intention on getting her back that you need to devise a strategy and one that will work.  So here comes the SWOT technique.  Now I don’t mean SWAT as in the beefed up security force who all have the good looks and bodies of Hollywood stuntmen but the SWOT of any strategic planning mission.  You need to identify your Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats.

So your Vision is:  To get HER back

Your Mission is:  Identify whatever means, methods and timelines it will take to achieve your objective in as short a time as possible.

You need to create your “Strategic Plan”.  So first things first and that is to identify your strengths.  Well that is pretty easy right!  WRONG!  Remember, she left you so obviously your strengths were not as “strong” as you would have liked.  Now is the time to sit down and do some contemplative thinking.

In so far as your weaknesses go, the best part of this is that most of it is already covered in strengths above because sometimes, the absence of certain strengths is seen as weaknesses. For example, each of the following may be considered weaknesses:

• lack of apparent affection and tactility (the touch factor)
• a poor communication technique
• spending too much time in front of the Television
• spending too much time with the boys
• lack of appreciation for all that she does
• lack of cooperation and help around the home

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So use these “weaknesses” to work on improving and adding to your strengths.  I can assure you, if you think you don’t have any weaknesses, phone up some of her girlfriends and I bet they will give you at least 10 right off the bat.

In a business environment, opportunities are normally external so this is where her family and friends come in.  (Provided they agree to talk to you). If not, consider that a weakness or a threat and deal with it in that regard).  If there is some unfulfilled need of your exes, now is the time to identify it and utilize it.  Maybe she wants a puppy?  Pay a visit to the pound and get her one, that way you are maximizing the situation – supporting charity and scoring a big brownie point with her.  Whatever the case, the opportunities are there, you just need to find them.

Threats could be a slap in the face, extreme rejection, the fact she may already have moved on or that she really just does not love you any more.  So you need to identify what these threats could be and make sure that you have a plan that can eliminate all of these threats ensuring that she comes back to where she belongs, in your arms and in your bed!

Yes it might sound a little cold and analytical to compare your ‘modus operandi’ of “getting your ex back” to a strategic plan but heck, if it can save blue chip companies, why wouldn’t you use the same strategy to save the most important person in your life!

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Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of “Getting Her Back… for Good” and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.

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Bring Back your Ex- Entice Him with a New You

Have you ever experienced a relationship breakup wherein you’ve found out that your negative attitude is the main reason behind the breakup?

You can think of a lot of ways and techniques to bring him back—some may be wrong for the situation, but there are two options which can lead to your reconciliation.

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Option #1. Let him see you with a wonderful aura. It is not necessary that you talk to him. Just look your best anytime so that when by chance you meet each other or he has spotted you some place, then he will surely do a double take to see you looking so gorgeous and so unaffected by your breakup. Hang out in places where you know he frequents and where most people go so that he will not think you are seeking him out. Looking awesome will also have its perks. People will notice you and find you attractive. When these persons who notice you also knows your ex boyfriend, then news will surely reach him that you are painting the town red.

Option #2. Send him inspirational quotes through email or through text messages. Be impersonal about the whole thing though. Don’t let him perceive the idea that you are trying to attract his attention and that you want to reconcile with him. Never add a personal message that will give away what you really feel deep inside you. Just send him friendly quotes that are generic in nature—something like from a friend to a friend kind of thing. Target his conscience and hopefully he will have the urge to talk with you. Don’t ever make the first move, let him.

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Each one of us, in our own little ways, has different roads to travel when dealing with relationship breakups. Whatever road you choose, make sure that you won’t look stupid. Whatever you do, listen to your heart and everything will be alright.

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