Signs That Will Tell You It’s Doomed to Fail (Part 2)

All relationships go their share of bad times and good times. But if things are consistently bad then it is just an indication of things to follow.

If you have missed the first part of this , here is the link to it  Top Signs that it is doomed to fail.

6. He is abusive.

Or maybe he loves you, but maybe just too much that you can’t go out with friends, you can’t go to your boss’s birthday party, and with every guy you talk to he thinks you’re cheating. Then just out of this paranoia he will tell you nasty things like, you’re such a sl*t, you’ll never do things right, you can’t do things right, and you’ll never do anything right.

When he tells you these, think again. Nobody (not even a gorgeous Brad Pitt look-alike) has the right put you down like this. No one has the right to shatter your self-esteem just like that.

7. He’s only after your money, your car, or your apartment, or whatever material you can give him.

I hate it when this happens. He tells me he loves me, he tells me he wants to give the whole world to me, he adores me, then after a while he tells me, “I don’t have a decent pair of shoes” or, “I don’t have a decent cell phone”, or, “I don’t have the money to buy myself lunch”. Makes you want to buy him, right? Now this is the problem. There’s nothing wrong to buy him those especially when he needs it so bad. What can go so wrong with charity? But if he keeps doing that often, go back to earth, girl. It’s obvious that he’s using those “pity” ploys just to use you for whatever material thing he needs. Stop falling for it, and stop wanting him back if he’s just that.

8. You or your friends keep seeing him with another girl.

He keeps on telling you that it’s one of his cousins, or one of his friends, but your friends tell you otherwise. Come on, can you really kiss a cousin (with a lip and tongue lock)?! And see them every so often elsewhere – together? And wait. If he needs to buy a new shirt, why can’t he take you?

9. You find out that he is still married, or he has kids, and for some reason can’t file for divorce or doesn’t provide child support.

Now this is a major problem. If you’re single then you don’t deserve a guy who messed his life this way. You deserve a better guy who’s single and in all sense of the word, unattached. If you feel unlucky not to meet a single guy like that, don’t feel sorry to think that he’s the only guy left in the world. Who knows. If he did that to someone, what makes you think that he won’t do that to you? If you’d like to end up like the poor girl he got pregnant and left, and suffer like she did, then go ahead.

10. He’s just there when he needs to, you know, do it.

This is perhaps, the worst thing a guy can ever do. Ok we’re all human and we have those needs. You too have those needs. But when a guy treats you like a sex doll and leaves just right after, better use your brains now, girl. If you don’t feel offended at all, you should. For you and your life to get better you have to take care of your confidence and self esteem. And letting him abuse you like a sex doll then walk away is not a way to go. Come on. You’re not some cheap wh*re who’s just there waiting for him to unload it all to you. You surely deserve a better guy who can treat you like  a princess because trust me, no matter how few they are, good guys still exist.

Now, would you still want him back?

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