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Top reasons why a girl dumps a guy

February 12, 2010 by Get Ex Back  
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Reasons Why A Girl Leaves a Guy

There are several reasons. Look out for some of these:

Have you lost your girlfriend or are you on the verge of getting dumped? Its hard to understand a girl and its next to impossible to reason out what influences our decisions.

Here is my take on why a girl leaves a guy and being a girl myself I can tell you exactly how we think and act and most of all why we do the things we do. So here are the top reasons.

1. He took me for granted.

Why is it only good in the beginning? Why does novelty have to fade? Girls love romance. That is why we females thrive on emotions and emotions making up a larger part of our personas, we dreamt of fairy tales. We dream of our knight-and-shining armor ready to rescue us, a damsel in distress. We dream of that one guy who will sweep us off our feet. You have to be our protector, inspite of and despite of. Will that be consistent? Lucky us if you are. Unlucky if you’re not. If unlucky, there are so many guys wanting to be consistently romantic anyway (though we might have a hard time finding one).

2. The guy is too possessive/jealous.

Whenever you see me talking to my boss, my male cousin, my good guy friend from college, even with an ex-boyfriend who I obviously don’t love anymore, that will never mean I am cheating on you. So don’t start off an argument from there. It’s nice if you’re a bit jealous, because that means you love us that much, but please hombre. Not too much that we’re not even allowed to talk to our brothers.

3. The guy is too abusive (physically and/or emotionally).

Once you hit me, I’m sure as gone. I may physically stay because of a lot of reasons of loving you and needing you, but emotionally, you just killed me. I can also hit you but most of the time, I choose not to because I love you. But since you already did, then this should be the first and the last time you ever will. I was never born to be your punching bag, neither your sex doll, nor your shock absorber. I also get tired and in this case, I have to leave.

4. He was too insecure.

I got attracted to you because I thought you were confident to handle yourself enough. Confidence will never mean that you have to brag or keep on impressing me. Yes, I would love an occasional pampering and spoiling me to a fine dining resto or a shopping spree down the 5th Ave., but you don’t have to overdo it. You don’t have to over-detail how great you are, to the point of making me feel low. I like you as the funny, loving, and confident you, and nothing more. If you feel secure enough, you will always trust me not to cheat on you.

5. I wasn’t allowed to have a life without him.

I was a hard worker (and a hard out part lover) even before I met you. I already have friends even before you came into my life. I was already that social butterfly and the life of the party even before I fell in love with you. You just can’t take it all away. I know my commitments, and that include you, and it’s really up to me how I should balance my work life (and party life) with you.

6. He was already becoming a bad influence.

You can’t force me to do drugs if I don’t want to. You can force me or pressure me to gamble on my hard earned savings just to prove my love for you. You can’t force me into a life of a drunkard either. Even if I’m already getting addicted to these, you should be the one stopping me because, you love me and know what’s best for me.

7. He was becoming a gold digger.

You can’t pressure me into buying you a car, a house, or paying for your rent. You can’t pressure me into buying you a new pair of shoes either. You can’t keep on asking for money like your existence totally depended on my paycheck. I have my own expenses too, and as a guy you should be having a stable source of income as well. If I give you something, it should be entirely to my own accord and not yours.

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