3 Biggest Secrets To Win Back Your Ex’s Heart

Sometimes we can learn from Hollywood. In Hollywood a romance never works smoothly. Two people who are right for each other never just meet, fall in love and live happily ever after. That would be boring. To make a good movie there need to be complications. Sometimes those complications include a break-up. Life is like that too. Sometimes a relationship doesn’t go right on the first attempt. There may not have been the right time. Careers may take you apart. Someone else may be involved. It doesn’t really matter, the point is that sometimes you want to re-establish a relationship with your ex, and the following are three of the secrets you should know in order to win back your ex.

Keep the lines of communication open.

If you cut each other off you need to re-open the communication lines as soon as possible. After a relationship ends there is often a period where interaction between you is chilly or non-existent. You need to get over that as quickly as possible and get back to the point where you can be completely comfortable in each other’s company. The easiest way to do this is normally through mutual friends, and friends are always keen to help out in these situations. Once you get back to the point where you can communicate easily, the whole process becomes much easier.

The best thing you can do initially to get the talk flowing again is NOT talk about the past, your breakup, or anything serious which might put pressure on the situation. There will be a time when those things can be discussed, but first get comfortable with each other again.

Broach the Subject.

At some point, you will need to test the waters and see if there is a chance of winning back your ex. Light flirting will give help you receive signals from your ex. If he or she seems receptive, then give it a shot.

This is really scary, but you need to know if you are wasting your time. The world is full of ex-couples who spend a lot of time in each other’s company, both wanting to get back together but still apart. Why? Because no-one is prepared to take the plunge and ask if there’s a chance things could work again. “Friends” managed to spin the storyline out for 10 years! Are you prepared to wait around for 10 years not knowing whether your ex is still interested in you or not?

It’s also important to realize that your partner is not likely to say “oh thank goodness” and fall back into your arms the first time you broach the subject. It could happen, but you are more likely to get either a “not a chance” response, or a non-committal response. Either is fine. If there is no chance, then you have saved yourself a lot of chasing someone who is never going to be interested again. If they respond they are uncertain – then there is hope!

SHOW, Don’t Tell,

One of the classic mistakes is to repeatedly tell your ex how you will be better in the future. It’s a mistake because it appears desperate, which is a turn-off. Instead of talking about what you will do, just start doing it. For example, if your ex wanted you to be more open, be open and caring in your actions. Give a gift, extend an olive branch. In other words, show action, not words.

Last time you were together, something went wrong. You shouldn’t try to brush that under the carpet. Actually acknowledge it, address it and show how you will make it better. When problems of the past arise again, handle it in a new way. For example, if you had a habit of overreacting in the past, then when something troublesome happens, try to shrug it off. You want your ex to notice your changes. But they must be sincere and genuine. If it is just a show to get your ex back, it will be transparent to your ex and you will do more damage than good.

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Bring Back your Ex- Entice Him with a New You

Have you ever experienced a relationship breakup wherein you’ve found out that your negative attitude is the main reason behind the breakup?

You can think of a lot of ways and techniques to bring him back—some may be wrong for the situation, but there are two options which can lead to your reconciliation.

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Option #1. Let him see you with a wonderful aura. It is not necessary that you talk to him. Just look your best anytime so that when by chance you meet each other or he has spotted you some place, then he will surely do a double take to see you looking so gorgeous and so unaffected by your breakup. Hang out in places where you know he frequents and where most people go so that he will not think you are seeking him out. Looking awesome will also have its perks. People will notice you and find you attractive. When these persons who notice you also knows your ex boyfriend, then news will surely reach him that you are painting the town red.

Option #2. Send him inspirational quotes through email or through text messages. Be impersonal about the whole thing though. Don’t let him perceive the idea that you are trying to attract his attention and that you want to reconcile with him. Never add a personal message that will give away what you really feel deep inside you. Just send him friendly quotes that are generic in nature—something like from a friend to a friend kind of thing. Target his conscience and hopefully he will have the urge to talk with you. Don’t ever make the first move, let him.

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Each one of us, in our own little ways, has different roads to travel when dealing with relationship breakups. Whatever road you choose, make sure that you won’t look stupid. Whatever you do, listen to your heart and everything will be alright.

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The Stages of a Breakup

Often, the stages that you go through after a relationship breakup are very similar to what you go through when you receive any other type of terminal diagnosis. A person often goes through the same common five stages of grief… denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance… just a they would with other life-threatening situations.

These stages of grief are very real. However, it’s important to remember that these five stages of grief are not experienced in exactly the same way, or even in the exact same order for everybody. Many times, people end up hitting the denial and bargaining stages before they get around to any of the other stages. And this can cause a lot of problems, because what ends up happening is that a person continues to try to revive a relationship that really might be over for good. Let’s review these five stages of grief, and how they relate to a relationship breakup:

#1 – Denial

You can’t even believe that it might be over. All you can think of is how much you want to contact your ex… even if they aren’t trying to contact you.

#2 – Bargaining

You spend a great deal of time and energy trying to think of ways to still make the relationship work.

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#3 – Depression

You start to lose hope, and feel like maybe there’s nothing you can really do that will change your ex’s mind.

Maybe that’s as far as we should go. Let’s vow to stop this vicious cycle before you even get to the anger stage.

In the case of a breakup, one of the most important things you need to remember is to take care of yourself. Relationships may come and go, but you always have to take care of yourself first, no matter what.

Make sure you appreciate yourself for just being you. Don’t count on other people, even if it’s your “special someone”, to appreciate you. The only person you can really count on when the chips are down is yourself. When you’re in love with somebody, there is this constant effort to get an affirmation from them that they are in love with you too. You might even love yourself, and realize what a great person you are… but still you feel that you need to get the assurance that somebody else thinks you’re wonderful too. Although it’s easy to get into this vicious cycle, you need to try to take care of yourself, and don’t let yourself be too vulnerable to that kind of thinking.

One of the best things you can do for yourself is to just feel good about being you. Find the strength within yourself to handle whatever life brings your way. You need to have the self-assurance that comes with knowing you have the confidence to handle any situation… even when you are in a situation where your relationship is going through tough times, or even if you fear it might actually be over. Don’t let yourself be intimidated by these kinds of thoughts and these types of situations. Find the strength which you know you have deep down inside that it takes to handle these types of situations with poise, confidence and self-assurance.

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